Oh, the comfort --
the inexpressible comfort of feeling
safe with a person,
Having neither to weigh thoughts,
Nor measure words --
but pouring them
All right out -- just as they are --
Chaff and grain together --
Certain that a faithful hand will
Take and sift them --
Keep what is worth keeping --
And with a breath of kindness
Blow the rest away...


-Dinah Maria Mulock Craik

The most difficult things to accept are the things which we know is wrong from the very start but still we let it happen...

There is dignity in not giving up on someone we truly love. But there is more dignity in letting them go so they can experience better love. That shows my true love because i then become unselfish. And through putting others first, unconditional love grows.

There is respect in fighting gallantly to win someone's heart another time. But an even greater respect comes from fighting hard and knowing when to stop. Even though i would give anything to have the past back. "YOU" touched my life in a way that will make my future so much brighter. Accept and hold my head high. Knowing i have captured your heart as well. There is courage in allowing my heart to hurt and grieve. But there is a greater courage in knowing it will be scarred but stronger as time goes on. For those scars has made my life better in some way and will make me a better person when i finally found that SOMEONE because of what those scars taught me.

Losing "YOU", the person who meant the most in my life is a humbling experience, yet it is even more humbling if i allow "YOU" to run my life and forsake all i have been blessed with when i feel like i have lost my world.

I should consider how many people depends on me and who am i to the world. There is a fortitude in holding on for another chance although an even greater fortitude comes from extending my hand and heart in FRIENDSHIP, realizing i will still share things with "YOU" no one else ever will.

I will always have the looks and jokes and memories. I should never discount how special those things are in my heart and yours. True love hurts when it is lost but an even greater love grows inside mine through realization that something better is in the world for both of us.

And that there are still things to share with "YOU", even though some feelings may have changed.

Take your hand and helped "YOU" achieve your hopes and dreams Because in that there is dignity, respect, courage, humility, fortitude, and the unconditional love that will continue to grow in both of our hearts...

100% FUN

I want to thank You for what you have already done.

I am not going to wait until I see results or receive rewards
I am thanking you right now
I am not going to wait until I feel better or things look better
I am thanking you right now
I am not going to wait until people say they are sorry or until they stop talking about me
I am thanking you right now.

I am not going to wait until the pain in my body disappears
I am thanking  you right now.
I am not going to wait until my financial situation improves
I am going  to thank you right now.

I am not going to wait until the children are asleep and the house is quiet
I am going to thank you right now.
I am not going to wait until I get promoted at work or until I get the job
I am going to thank you right now.

I am not going to wait until I understand every experience in my life that has caused me pain or grief
I am going to thank you right now.

I am not going to wait until the journey gets easier or the challenges are removed.
I am thanking you right now.

I am thanking you because I am alive.
I am thanking you because I made it through the day's difficulties.
I am thanking you because I have walked around the obstacles.
I am thanking you because I have the ability and the opportunity to do
more  and do better.
I'm thanking you because FATHER,


YOU haven't given up on me.

There are times na tinatanong ko ang sarili ko "y people can't accept things as they are?" is it bcoz they want something else or is it bcoz they think na meron pang mas better... there's a saying that TRUE FRIENDS, they're der thru thick and thin... pero minsan all we need is someone who'll listen to us... no matter it is good or bad... someone who'll just lend their ears for us and not someone who'll impose everything na sa palagay nila ay tama on their own way... it's not that u don't wanna hear their advises, it's just that sometimes we only do those things 'coz we think it will make us happy... but then, another question will cling..."why can't they be happy for us?" well, it's a fact that not all our decisions will make us happy... there are times that most of our decisions will only lead us into heartache and tears...