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Tuesday, February 01, 2005
.:: story of the two teardrops ::.
Two little teardrops were floating down the river of life. One drop said to the other, "I am the teardrop of a girl who loved a man and lost him." Who are you? "Well, I am the teardrop of the girl who won him."
Love is very strange.
Love is unconditional commitment to an imperfect individual. You need it but when you love, it's like destining yourself for pain. You become addicted and dependent on the person. You become strong and at the same time, you open yourself up to being hurt.
Love can make you bear any kind of pain and any kind of sacrifice. It can also make you feel stupid and act stupidly. Sometimes when you love and end up giving so much of yourself, subconciously you only discover how much you've given when the person you love hurts you or has to say goodbye.
Then you realize, an important part of yourself is already with that person. It goes away when he leaves and you are left with a sickening, empty feeling inside.
Tears are bound to shed from your eyes no matter how you force yourself to keep them in. Most teardrops ever shed on this earth have been for love or lack of it. When tears dry, a silent loss sticks to your heart for a long, long time.
Well, that's what you get for caring so much about someone.
But how can you regret it?
To give yourself freely and lovingly is the most beautiful thing you can do.
Loving makes you real. Loving also makes you cry.
And that is why a teardrop is also BEAUTIFUL.
-Author Unknown
 SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 05:21 pm
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.:: story of the two teardrops ::.
Monday, January 31, 2005
  
...a SUNSET for today means another rising sun tomorrow...
~dis are some of sunset pics i captured while in the summit of Mt. Daguldol
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 01:33 pm
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.:: SUNSET ::.
Wednesday, January 26, 2005
.:: a poem made especially for me ::.
'coz u didn't appreciate me
I loved u so much yet,
You took all that u cud get.
U robbed my heart and gave me pain,
out of ur heart and into the rain.
I gave you my evrything and u threw it away.
I gave you my heart and u tore it all the way.
I was ready to give you my whole life,
but u threw it down the pipes.
I cant believe u didn't love me at all...
In the first place, y did u make me fall?
I loved u, baby, cant u see?
Why didn't u appreciate me?
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 12:40 pm
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.:: a poem made especially for me ::.
Wednesday, January 19, 2005
Oh, the comfort --
the inexpressible comfort of feeling
safe with a person,
Having neither to weigh thoughts,
Nor measure words --
but pouring them
All right out -- just as they are --
Chaff and grain together --
Certain that a faithful hand will
Take and sift them --
Keep what is worth keeping --
And with a breath of kindness
Blow the rest away...
-Dinah Maria Mulock Craik
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 11:30 am
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.:: FriEndShiP ::.
Friday, January 14, 2005
.:: The GREATEST ADVICE ::.
Don't date because you are desperate.
Don't marry because you are miserable.
Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior. Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.
Don't associate with people you can't trust.
Don't cheat. Don't lie. Don't pretend.
Don't dictate because you are smarter.
Don't demand because you are stronger.
Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough and know better.
Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder. Don't sell yourself, your family, or your ideals. Don't stagnate.!
Don't regress.
Don't live in the past. Time can't bring anything or anyone back. Don't put
your life on hold for possibly Mr/Mrs Right. Don't throw your life away on absolutely Mr Wrong because your biological clock is ticking.
Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won.
Only a price to be paid for some of life's more hasty decisions.
To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions and be the best of what you can be. Simplify your life. Take away the clutter. Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous liaisons. Don't abandon your responsibilities but don't overdose on duty.
Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family. Be true to yourself.
Don't commit when you are not ready.
Don't keep others waiting needlessly.
Go on that trip. Don't postpone it.
Say those words. Don't let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society's scorn.
Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.
Cry at the movies.
Take care of yourself. Don't wait for someone to take care of you. You light up your life. You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you except YOU.
It is true that life does not get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don't be afraid. Don't lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.
Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in your God.
Don't grow old. Just grow YOU!
When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you'll never get back. Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give someone is your time. Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.
-the first email i've read this morning... and it's really something nice to share to you guys out there...
Have a nice day and an enjoyable weekend...
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 08:20 am
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.:: The GREATEST ADVICE ::.
Wednesday, January 12, 2005
.:: a quote from a Friend ::.
The most difficult things to accept are the things which we know is wrong from the very start but still we let it happen...
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 03:28 pm
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.:: a quote from a Friend ::.
Tuesday, January 11, 2005
wala lang ako magawa...
and2 pa ako sa ofc...
mag-isa...
ayoko umuwi ng maaga kasi kung anu-ano na naman ang maiisip ko...
haaaaaayyyyyyyy...
pwede bang mag "time space warp" na lang ako...
haaaaaayyyyyyyy ulit...
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 07:18 pm
soul searcher here...
...ala lang!!!
 
Dear Jhen,
Here is your horoscope
for Tuesday, January 11:
You know the saying, 'Give til it hurts,' but who's getting hurt? Is your generous heart bleeding itself dry for some worthy cause? Is your effortless output causing the receiver great pain? Stop to adjust an imbalance.
i'm d kind of person who never believes on what the horoscope says... but sometimes reading some of it really make sense...
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 09:58 am
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-= it does make sense =-
Monday, January 10, 2005
There is dignity in not giving up on someone we truly love. But there is more dignity in letting them go so they can experience better love. That shows my true love because i then become unselfish. And through putting others first, unconditional love grows.
There is respect in fighting gallantly to win someone's heart another time. But an even greater respect comes from fighting hard and knowing when to stop. Even though i would give anything to have the past back. "YOU" touched my life in a way that will make my future so much brighter. Accept and hold my head high. Knowing i have captured your heart as well. There is courage in allowing my heart to hurt and grieve. But there is a greater courage in knowing it will be scarred but stronger as time goes on. For those scars has made my life better in some way and will make me a better person when i finally found that SOMEONE because of what those scars taught me.
Losing "YOU", the person who meant the most in my life is a humbling experience, yet it is even more humbling if i allow "YOU" to run my life and forsake all i have been blessed with when i feel like i have lost my world.
I should consider how many people depends on me and who am i to the world. There is a fortitude in holding on for another chance although an even greater fortitude comes from extending my hand and heart in FRIENDSHIP, realizing i will still share things with "YOU" no one else ever will.
I will always have the looks and jokes and memories. I should never discount how special those things are in my heart and yours. True love hurts when it is lost but an even greater love grows inside mine through realization that something better is in the world for both of us.
And that there are still things to share with "YOU", even though some feelings may have changed.
Take your hand and helped "YOU" achieve your hopes and dreams Because in that there is dignity, respect, courage, humility, fortitude, and the unconditional love that will continue to grow in both of our hearts...
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 04:55 pm
soul searcher here...
-= in Losing "YOU" =-
-= KungFu Hustle (a must see movie) =-
if you really wanna have a good time laughing... hanggang sa sumakit ang tyan nyo sa kakatawa... don't miss this one... i've watched Shaolin Soccer but this one is very different... nag-enjoy talaga ako... i've never seen the trailer of it kaya at first hesistant ako na panoorin sya last night pero wala ako magawa kasi yun ang gusto panoorin ng mga cousin ko, but then after watching it, i can't stop laughing... HAHAHA... especially pag naaalala ko yung steps ng AXE Gang Dance... and yung character nung landlady having the lions roar kungfu technique and the red underware nung tailor... hehehe
having reference to the dialoagues in some movies... you really can't stop laughing while watching...
"With great power comes great responsibility" - remember Spiderman
He must be "The One" - movie of Jet Lee
though it was dubbed in mandarin with mandarin and english subtitle... it's cool and a
100% FUN
SimpLe ThoughTs by jhenskie posted at exactly 02:23 pm
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-= KungFu Hustle (a must see movie) =-
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