A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. In a specific point of the journey, they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one, who got slapped, was hurt, but without anything to say, he wrote in the sand:

     "TODAY, MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE".

They kept on walking, until they found an oasis, where they decided to  take  a  bath. The one who got slapped and hurt started drowning, and the other  friend saved him. When he recovered from the fright, he wrote on a stone:

   "TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE".

The friend who saved and slapped his best friend, asked him, "Why, after I hurt you, you wrote in the sand, and now you write on a stone?

The other friend, smiling, replied: "When a friend hurts us, we should write it down in the sand, where the winds of forgiveness get in charge of erasing it away, and when something great happens, we should engrave it in the stone of the memory of the heart, where no wind can erase it"

1. Learn to write in the sand, when u have difference and hurted feelings with ur friend.
2. Learn to write in stone when ur friend had something done really good to you.


it's been a week since my last post and while i was browsing my mails i found this one...
for "YOU", just wanted you to know that everything you did that somehow hurted my feeling are all written in the sand... but all things that you done to me that made me feel special and loved are written in stone...

if there is one thing i really wanted to do right now... it's talking to "someone" whom i really misses so much... but i guess evrything will fall into it's proper place... it may not be right now but i believe that our path will cross again and everything will be alright...

for now, i just want you to TAKE GOOD CARE and ALWAYS BE HAPPY...

GOD Bless us ALL!!!

I dreamed I had an interview with God.
“So you would like to interview me?” God asked.
“If you have the time” I said.

God smiled. “My time is eternity.”
“What questions do you have in mind for me?”
“What surprises you most about humankind?”
God answered...

“That they get bored with childhood, they rush to grow up, and then long to be children again.”

“That they lose their health to make money...
and then lose their money to restore their health.”

“That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live in neither the present nor the future.”

"That they live as if they will never die, and die as though they had never lived.”

God’s hand took mine and we were silent for a while.
And then I asked...
“As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons you want your children to learn?”

“To learn they cannot make anyone love them. All they can do is let themselves be loved.”

“To learn that it is not good to compare themselves to others.”

“To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.”

“To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in those they love, and it can take many years to heal them.”

“To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.”

“To learn that there are people who love them dearly, but simply have not yet learned how to express or show their feelings.”

“To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see it differently.”

“To learn that it is not enough that they forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.”

"Thank you for your time," I said humbly.
"Is there anything else you would like your children to know?"
God smiled and said,

“Just know that I am here... always.”
-author unknown 

 
click here to view the presentation...

...a simple presentation that GOD love us and cared for us so much...

One day
LOVE and FRIEND
met on the road of LIFE...
LOVE asked,
"What's your use when I already exist?"
FRIEND smiled and said,
"I am here to put a SMILE when you put TEARS"

Reflection
(OST-Mulan)

Look at me i will never pass for a perfect bride
or a perfect daughter
Look at me you may think you see who I really am
But you'll never know me
Every day It's as if I play this part
Now I see that if I were truly to be myself
I would brake my family's heart
Who is that girl I see
Staring straight back at me
When will my reflection show who I am inside

Look at me you may think you see
Who I really am but you'll never know me
Every day It's as if I play a part
Now I see If i wear a mask i can fool the world
But I cannot fool my heart
Who is that girl I see
Staring straight back at me
When will my reflection show
Who I am inside I am now



In a world where i have to hide my heart
And what I believe in
But somehow I will show the world
What's inside my heart
And be loved for who I am
Who is that girl I see
Staring straight back at me
Why is my reflection
Someone I don't know
Must I pretend that I'm someone else for all time
When will my reflection show
Who I am inside

There's a heart that must be free to fly
That burns with a need to know the reason why
Why must we all conceal
What we think, how we feel
Must there be a secret me i'm forced to hide
I won't pretend that I'm someone else for all time
When will my reflection show who I am inside

When will my reflection show who I am inside...

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is it really hard to be "YOU"?

so many times i've asked myself:
"Why do i have to be someone else if i can be me?"
"Why did i have to lie to those people around me?"
"Why is it really hard for me to accept this reality of being me?"

my answer is simply...
"because i don't want them to know the real me..."

maybe some people will say that they really knew me...
i maybe friendly and sweet to my friends...
i maybe a responsible daughter to my parents...
i maybe a good sister to my siblings...
i maybe a good follower to the elders and higher rank...

but they don't know me as "ME"...
'coz as of this time "NO ONE" can really tell who the real "ME" is except HIM...